How To Get Clear And Concise In Your Ask


The quality of your questions determine the quality of your relationships. Today, Lori and I are sharing our top tips for how to get the answers that you’re looking for. We talk about creating an equal energy exchange and being self-aware and respectful of people’s time and resources. We discuss best practices for how to build your network and get on people’s radars. Trust me, we look back on some of the long-winded paragraphs that we’ve sent and we’re here to help you avoid making the same mistakes! 



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( 1:04 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of The Chris Harder Show.

( 3:03 ) Chris introduces the topic of today’s episode, how to get crystal clear with what you’re asking. 

( 3:21 ) Lori shares an example of how to figure out exactly what you’re looking for. 

( 5:54 ) Chris and Lori talk about why some people are ‘black listed’ from asking for support.

( 6:56 ) Lori asks Chris, “what is the good way of getting in someone’s radar, and then also getting in someone’s network?”

( 8:30 ) Lori gives an example of a good ask that she had recently. 

( 12:18 ) Chris says, “Your job as an asker is to make it as clear and concise and as light lifting as possible.”

( 14:09 ) Chris explains why you should be reaching out to your peers for advice. 

( 15:08 ) Text FAST (310) 421-0416 to get on the VIP waitlist for the next in-person Fast Foundations

( 15:53 ) Chris and Lori sign off the episode.

If you're getting
avoided, it's
probably because
you're asking
in an assumptive

You’re Going To Hear About:

  • How to get what you want by asking in the right way 
  • Why your messages might be getting left on read 
  • Creating a very precise and focused question 
  • The power of reaching out to your peers and competitors for advice  
  • Casting a wide net when you’re looking for answers 

Resources Mentioned:

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