Never Fall For “I Liked You Better When…”


I’ve seen it happen over and over again where the ‘I liked you better when…’ comments pop up as someone starts gaining traction. It’s hard to hear it, but there will inevitably be people in your circle who will try to hold you down when you gain confidence and start living out your passion. Because I’ve gone through it myself, I have some strategies for rising above those fears and surrounding yourself with people who reinforce your tenacity.


Episode Timeline & Discussion Questions:

(1:18) Welcome back to The Chris Harder Show. Today, Chris is talking about why you shouldn’t listen to people who tell you that they liked you better before you started chasing your dream. 

(2:25) Chris looks back on when Lori received a comment like that after an event.  

(4:03) Chris explains how these comments are typically subconscious. 

(5:58) Chris imagines what life would be like if people like Tony Robbins or Oprah listened to the people who didn’t support their ambitious dreams. 

(8:26) Chris shares the best way to reinforce your growth mindset.  

(9:21) Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras or Business Perspective texts. 

(9:44) Chris asks listeners to share the podcast and leave a 5-star review. 

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You’re Going To Hear About:

  • Why it’s so important to be around people who are also invested in becoming the best version of themselves
  • Recognizing why you might be playing small  
  • The best way to reinforce your growth mindset 

Resources Mentioned:

  • Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras or Business Perspective messages to boost your day.