How To Turn Fear Into Fuel For Your Dreams!


We all have fears, but how can you use them to propel you forward instead of hold you back? All you have to do is choose which fear you’re going to feed and let that be the fuel that motivates you to achieve your big goals. 

Lori and I discuss what fears really drive us, and how we use that to stay focused without letting it overwhelm us. We feel so fortunate to live the life that we do now and show up for our friends and family in ways that we never could’ve dreamed of, and the thought of all that going away is enough to kick us into high gear. What’s the thing that keeps you going when you feel like you can’t anymore? Always remember that and use it to your advantage. 



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( 1:07 ) Welcome back to another He Said She Said episode of The Chris Harder Show.

( 1:32 ) Lori asks Chris, “What is the thing that really drives you and keeps you motivated? And how do you not only stay motivated and really use it and tap into it and think about it, but how do you also not let it take over and control you?”

( 4:02 ) Chris asks Lori, “What would you say motivates you?”

( 5:52 ) Chris says, “It’s the fear of not being able to have things that makes me take action.”

( 7:38 ) Lori asks listeners, “Can you get over your kind of petty fear when other people would give anything to be in your position?”

( 9:14 ) Chris says, “By knowing oneself, and by knowing what all your fears are, then you can choose which fear you want to feed.”

( 10:55 ) Lori says, “I’m also afraid of not growing, because I know what that feels like.”

( 12:04 ) Lori asks listeners to share what their positive fears are with them on Instagram. 

Nothing gives me more
joy than doing beautiful
things in beautiful
spaces with really
great people and
providing that for them.

You’re Going To Hear About:

  • The power of visualizing the life that you want and being unapologetic about it
  • Recognizing if it’s the excitement of having nice things or the fear of not having them that makes you take action
  • Appreciating the freedom we have in our country to pursue our boldest dreams 
  • Tangible ways to reimagine your fears as motivation

Resources Mentioned:

  • Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras to boost your day.